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Fantasy Man Monday

Presidents Day and many of you are having a well deserved three day weekend. I however am chained to the desk of my day job wishing I was outside in the sunshine.

PRESIDENTS DAY

Is it less than tasteful to consider sensuality factor in the leader of the free world? Certainly there are points for charisma. Wiser minds than mine will have to ponder that philosophical line.

I failed to be inspired by any president living or dead for hotness factor in consideration of today’s traditional theme. I turned to actors who have portrayed President.

Bill Pullman in ‘Independence Day’ is probably on my top five list. Husky voice and can jump in a plane to shoot em up with the invading hoard.

And a close contender for sexy make believe president has to be actor, Harrison Ford. The exciting action adventure movie, ‘Air Force One’. He was kick ass bad in that role and the line “Get Off My Plane! Great dialogue. What else was there to say!

What would be my pick for president. Hummm Yes it would have to be some post apocalyptic zombie thing? The president could make an impassioned speech and then grab a semi-automatic monster sized gun and blaze a trail through the zombies.

Maybe? Shemar Moore would make the list.

Who would be your pick for the part?

Fantasy Man Monday

Sunday night as I prepare this blog for Monday the world as I know it is watching the Super Bowl. I live in a rural county where the standing joke is Jesus won’t return on a Friday night cause in this town foot ball is God and Fridays the masses worship high school foot ball.

Two Fantasy Men rose above the pack as The Steelers Faced the Packers. The leaders of the team. The revered Quarterbacks.

Aaron Rodgers, quarter back for the Packers

Battled against

Pittsburg Steelers Quarterback

Ben Roethlisberger

The age old battle between football teams. Many people have compared ancient warriors to the modern football players of today. I guess my brain can make the leap and see it. Warriors battling it out over territory… But then I Hear Andy Williams and his deep country drawl saying…. “What it was was foot ball.”… and I crack up.

The fans are rather passionate about their love of the game.

Okay so, I will admit to being rather clueless about the whole thing. But, hey, don’t judge me. I cheered Tbow through season after season of Gator football.

February 2nd Ground Hog Day

Will the ground hog see his shadow indicating another six weeks of winter? If he doesn’t then we will have an early spring.

http://www.groundhog.org/groundhog-day/about-groundhog-day/

Groundhog day is serious business.

My middle child was born on Ground Hog day 21 years ago today. She is an amazing person. She is talented and gracious. She will graduate with her associates degree this spring. She wants to pursue a career in counseling therapy.

I won’t go on and on because I have the pride in her that every parent has in their off spring. Well, that will be what you tell yourselves. However, I would find her amazing even if she wasn’t my child.

I didn’t say perfect…. I said amazing.

She works summers as camp staff shepherding children between the ages of 8 and 13 and teen Counselors ages 14 to 18 years old. She teaches archery and waterfront safety, swimming…all kinds of stuff.

Wikipedia says of her name:

” ‘Sabra’ (Hebrew: צבר‎, pronounced tsabar; ṣabra ) is a term used to describe a Jewish person born in Israeli territory; the term is also usually inclusive of Jews born during the period of the establishment of the state of Israel.

[1] The word sabra derived from the Hebrew name for the Indian Fig Opuntia cactus, “tzabar”, and related to the Arabic word sabr which means “aloe” or “cactus” or “patience”.[2] the allusion is to a tenacious, thorny desert plant with a thick hide that conceals a sweet, softer interior, suggesting that even though the Israeli Sabra are rough and masculine on the outside, they are delicate and sensitive on the inside. In the United States, this cactus variety is known as the Prickly Pear.”

Sabra hummus is a real treat. I wish my Sabra owned controlling stock.

My Sabra is single, intelligent and happy. she is self determined and able to handle almost anything. Yes, she can even use power tools. So she is my Wednesday Heroine. She doesn’t need a man to complete her…she is whole and healthy without a man in her life. However, she does boycott Valentines day for obvious reasons.

Yet, I know that she is going to be inspiration for one kick ass heroine someday soon. And, in the end My Heroine will find a man that will value her own unique qualities, love her, cherish her and give her the freedom to continue to be that self determined capable young woman.

I could only hope for a similar happily-ever-after for the real Sabra.

Shoes

Someone reminded me of the thought, don’t judge until you walk a mile in someone else’s shoes. Which led me to thoughts of shoes. It is no secret that I really love shoes. I do have lots of shoes. They must be comfortable. That is the supreme rule one.

I’ve gotten a couple new pair of shoes this fall. During Black Friday shopping I found a pair a suede over the knee, high heeled boots. they are awesome and meet rule one perfectly. Just recently I bought a pair of short calf high heels. Again, rule one first and fantastic boots. www.youravon.com/kheinz to take a look at the wild shoes that Avon has available. Just follow the link shop my store and then put shoes in the search window. amazing!

I remember awhile back finding a blog that did a photo journalist review of a writers conference by taking pictures of participants shoes. It was hysterically funny. I can’t find the link now and it may have been several years ago. If anyone remembers it chime in so we can enjoy it again together.

This would give Cinderella pause

The glass shoe below comes from a blog on strange shoes.

Isn’t this one pretty? Probably doesn’t adhere to rule number one.

(We are just looking for fun and no copyright issues are intended.)

Fantasy Woman Monday

Yes, Yes. I know that today’s title is a deviation from my typical Fantasy Man Monday. However, in the interest of diversity of all kinds I am shifting gears on this Martin Luther King Birthday. All puns intended and intact.

Face it girls. Women are beautiful. We admire other women. You know it is true. We look and we have our own ideas of what is sexy. Admit it. We do look and at times we may model ourselves after beautiful women so that we will feel more sexy and appealing. At the very least we may wish to look more beautiful like XYZ, model, actress, someone we know. The fashion industry is built on the concept.

As a romance writer, I have to think about what makes women sexually appealing. Is there a difference between what a female would be attracted to in a beautiful woman? compared to what a man would respond to? I have to believe this to be true. I wish one of our male readers would weigh in on this conversation. Yes as a romance writer I think I have to create a heroine that the female reader would be attracted to. I know it sounds a little off kilter. But we have to be able to identify with the heroine. Feel sexy in HER skin. Relate to her and want to take the journey with her. We have to want her to get her Happily Every After.

And as another level of respect for diversity….what is the connect to attraction and sexuality if you are gay, lesbian or bisexual or even transgendered?

What are the differences in sex appeal? Or is SEXY just plain SEXY regardless of your gender or or sexual expression? It’s one of those questions I wonder about as an author and psychologist. hummm.

The psychology of attraction. What does it for you?

What do you think?

Writing is a Journey

Writing is a craft, an art, a career, an advocation.  Writing keeps me sane or rather, perhaps it channels my insantiny into socially acceptable norms.  I mean seriously …. voices in my head ….. The state mental hospital isn’t that far away my friends.

I always hope that 2010’s work in progress manuscript will be better than 2009, 2011 better than 2010, etc. I hope that I will be a stronger, tighter writer.  I wish to have a better grasp of voice, of deeper third point of view, get better at showing not telling.  As a somewhat organic writer I always hope to write less.  That is… to spend less time re-writing because of previous days and days of writing myself up a blind alley and finding myself in a plot corner from which there is no return. Delete, Delete, Delete. And lastly of course (for Abigail) I always hope to get better at knowing where to put those damn commas.

I feel the world changing.  I know this time is passing and soon there will be a revolution in my life that will change the face of everything I know.  Perhaps it makes me a little melancholy.  I’m MORE excited for the adventure. 

Writing is a lot of things to me but seldom a destination.  And while writing is so much a solitary occupation it is also rarely a journey one takes alone. Over the next few weeks I might highlight a few of those rare individuals who are brave enough to take this journey with me. So….keep reading…..

Lee Roland.  I brilliant author.  Her voice is clear and deep and a work of art. She broaches themes that sometimes unsettle me and always makes me think.  She presses me to be better than mediocre. Some will aspire to be a hollow reflection of her talent in days to come.  NAL recognized her talent this year and July, 2011 Viper Moon will hit shelves.  I hope she has a long line of success writing for them. She has paid her dues and endured the journey well. We all doubt ourselves at times. Lee didn’t let the negative voices stop her. I hope I can learn from her diligence and strength.

Charlie Allden was one of the first writers who could hear my voice. Maybe even before I could hear my voice. She is amazing. In critique while the rest of us are stumbling she zones in like a laser and knows precisely what to say that will be uplifting and most beneficial. I adore her work and can’t wait for her to get her call. She has given me excellent critique and I have cherished her wisdom. There are times when I know she saved me as a writer. She created a really cool blog for Science Fiction and futuristic readers. It encompass a variety of media, film, books, games. Great Great blog to read. I would love to see this blog, Smart girls SciFi go viral.

Abigail Sharpe is kind and witty. she is one Sharpe cookie *pun intended* She has a command of english that I would aspire to. This woman knows her mis-placed modifiers like they were kissin cousins and always, always, knows where to put those damn commas. Her voice has a delightful sense of humor that keeps me giggling as I read her work. All right, I will confess that sometimes I laugh out loud. Yep, she also will be getting the call one day very soon.

I tease her and say she is my Best Breast Buddy. Abigail heard my cancer story late one night during the 2009 Southern Lights writers conference. I may have been drinking wine and gave too candid a glimpse at the broken heroine inside me.

She was appalled that I had dropped out of follow-up after going into remission. She gave me her oncologist and her reconstruction surgeon. The imp followed up with me and I think if I had not made appointments on my own she would have made them for me and dragged me to them kicking and screaming. You have to have spent a year in cancer treatment to understand how I felt and why I ran from doctors after going into remission. It wasn’t the smart thing to do…no, not at all. Abigail as a cancer surviver knew what I was going through. She became my breast buddy that day. Love you girl. Now we discuss our surgeon’s long eye lashes and just how brilliant he is as the King of Tata’s. 2010 I completed Breast reconstruction surgery. I was gobstobbered at how much that outward change went toward helping me begin to heal some of the inward scars. But that is fodder for another blog, another day.

And then there is Jamie. Wickedly clever, intuitive, gifted, lyrical, Her voice contains lilting prose in almost every sentence. When you read her stories you are truly swept away to a different place and time. You want to cry when it is over for having taken the journey with her and that the time has ended to quickly. ((And NO JAMIE. I’m not blowing smoke your way just because you have my dream agent. pfffttt.))

Right now she is writing a blog that will give you a taste of her wonderful world. “I’m Trying to Do Something”

Wacky Way-out, Wonderful Friday

Wonderful, Wakey, Way-out Friday is here. So I wondered today what would qualify for my first Wx3 Friday blog. I came up with several contemplative thoughts.

My mom will be 78 this month. She spent two years losing weight to go from 225 pounds down to around 189 pounds. Then over the course of only 6 months she managed to eat her way back up to 238 pounds. Now she won’t believe she weights 238 pounds. Oh no She is convinced because…. The doctor’s office scale only says 220. However, the scale at the surgical suite for her heart catherization says 238 pounds. But to her, obviously THAT one is wrong. Is 220 pounds so much better than 238? The next statement from her is “I just can’t understand why I am sooo short of breath?” Hello Lucy you are the size of a small Rhino. I would be short of breath trucking around 238 pounds too! hummm.

Why do cats always land on their feet?

Why do tone deaf people enjoy singing?

Why does smoke follow beauty at the camp fire?

I haven’t gotten a traffic ticket lately humm or had an auto accident in I can’t remember when. I think I will price new auto insurance. Why is it the cosmos centers their bulls eye on me and this morning to inaugurate Wacky Way-out wonderful Friday. yep. I got a ticket.

FML.

There you have it kiddies. Proof that there is paranormal activity in small towns. This ticket is just one in a long line of negative events. Perhaps some secret intelligence agency has bugged my house, car, phone, brain and is running intensive behavioral testing on just how far I can be pushed before I crack under the pressure.

Have a wonderful, wacky, way-out Friday

The Beacon Unpublished CHALLENGE IS ON

I’ve had a lot of contemplation lately on just exactly what I am doing. At first I called myself an aspiring writer. I’ve gone through the phase of…. I’ll be a writer someday. Okay well I’m writing so obviously I am a writer. At one point I somehow thought it sounded more ego boosting to say I’m a pre-published writer. Then I realized that might mean that I actually had a “contract” waiting for it to work through the system to BE published. So that didn’t work. Here I am. I write therefore I am a writer.

If you have decided you are a writer too take this as the challenge. ENTER the BEACON UNPUBLISHED writing contest. I have to tell you three years ago….no one on the planet had ever read a word I had written. I had just almost completed a full length fiction manuscript and NO ONE HAD READ a word I’d written. I say it twice for emphasis folks. I took the first 30 pages and entered the Beacon unpublished. Call me crazy, I know. However, as BAD as that manuscript was. And honey, it was BAAADDDDD. The judges comments were kind and given objectively and they made me feel good about what I was doing while pointing out some obvious ways I could improve the work. It was the most educational experience of my writing career. So the challenge is on. Enter the Beacon. Yes, maybe you would want SOMEONE to read your entry before you submit it. I don’t recommend the cold turkey approach I used. But, at the time…that was me.

Last year I entered the Beacon Unpublished and made the final round. So from scores in the 70’s to the 90’s in one year. Hummm maybe this year I could actually win? We’ll see. But you won’t know unless you enter! The best part is for a relatively new writer you have wonderful critique comments on your work. If you are a more experienced writer then check out who the final round of judges are. You could get your work in front of some pretty impressive people. There is something for everyone. Below are the deets.

DEADLINE APPROACHING – The First Coast Romance Writers 2010 Unpublished Beacon Contest closes for entries at MIDNIGHT, OCTOBER 8.

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All electronic contest open to ALL WRITERS who have not been contracted for novel-length publication in the last 3 years, RWA membership is NOT required.

Judges first 30 pages (with optional synopsis) of an unpublished manuscript.

Cost: $25 – $35, Deadline for entry is October 8, 2010.

Each entry will be judged by a published author and a trained judge, with detailed comments on the ms and a simplified score sheet. Our final round judges include an editor AND an agent for each category.

Finalists will have the opportunity to revise before entries are submitted to final round judges.

Final Round Judges:

Chick Lit / Women’s Fiction / Mainstream – (E) Mercedes Fernandez, Kensington; (A) Weronika Janczuk, D4OE Literary Agency

Young Adult – (E) Debra Dixon, Belle Books; (A) Sara Crowe, Harvey Klinger Agency

Historical / Regency Romance– (E) Sally Williamson, Harlequin Mills & Boon; (A) Amy Boggs, Donald Maass Literary Agency

Single Title Contemporary Romance – (E) Georgia Woods, Samhain; (A) Elaine English, Elaine P. English Literary

Contemporary Series Romance– (E) Rhonda Penders, The Wild Rose Press; (A) Michelle Grajkowski, 3 Seas Literary Agency

Romantic Suspense – (E) Tessa Woodward, Harper Collins Publishers; (A) Paige Wheeler, Folio Literary Agency

Fantasy, Futuristic, Paranormal Romance – (E) Leis Pederson, Penguin / Berkley; (A) TBA

Erotic Romance – (E) Raelene Gorlinski, Ellora’s Cave; (A) Laura Bradford, Bradford Literary Agency

Inspirational Romance – (E) Elizabeth Mazer, Steeple Hill; (A) Pam Strickler, Pam Strickler Author Management

For more information, visit http://www.firstcoastromancewriters.com/contest_un.htm or email fcrw_beacon2010@yahoo.com .

Thank you to

My Girl Wednesday

Hump Day is almost past and I have to say exploring the heroine these past few weeks has given me a moment to pause and consider what we all look for in the female stars of our stories.

Is she the tough spunky type ready to fight battles with the hero sometimes becoming part of the problem rather than a solution?

Or is she so capable and kick ass that she hardly needs the hero to conquer her own demons but somehow he completes something missing in her personality so they are a natural fit?

What does your heroine bring to the table for skills, character arch and vunerability?

Fantasy Man Monday

It is pouring rain today. It almost inspires me to have pictures of wet fantasy men. Yet that might bet too risque’. The antithesis of wet t-shirt. Wet running shorts. Ahhh no, I don’t think this is the time to go there.

Melisa wrote and told me that she can’t believe I have not previewed Shemar Moore’s hotness on Fantasy Man Monday. In checking I quite agree. He can not be overlooked a moment longer. This blog would be irresponsible to surging female hormones everywhere to deny them this eye candy moment.

So there you have it ladies. A few candidates for your next fantasy man dreams.

Happy fantasies

You will recognize him from Criminal Minds.

He has a beautiful smile, and there are some buff beach pics out there that will make us blush. ahemmm. anyway

A number of my readers contacted me to say a good smile was a most significant feature to capture their interest in a man. I have to admit a good smile usually comes with a mischievous twinkle in his eyes.

I have also not given sufficient air time to Scott Stapp. I have been reprimanded for this grievous oversight. I am hanging my head in shame for not noticing this sexy boy earlier.

Okay maybe not so much a boy. hummm.